James' books always provoke me to think, and this book does it as well as any. If you're a complementarian conspiracy theorist, this book is not for you. I know some folks think James is out to undermine complementarian teaching, but I actually have benefitted from some of the push back she subtly gives. She married later in life and had problems having children. I can identify with sincerely valuing and longing for marriage and children, yet being thwarted from each by the sovereign hand of God. That experience opened my eyes to the flawed ways we present women's issues in Scripture, which I've talked about many times on this blog. I think James' experience is similar.
Carolyn Custis James is not anti-complementarian, yet she is challenging for complementarians. And that's OK. If you aren't threatened by a challenge, this is a good read. The main thrust of the book is how the creation mandate gives dignity to all women. James forms a vision for women in the church informed as much by Genesis 1 as Genesis 2. She also draws attention to the inadequacies of women's teaching dominated by western cultural views of needs and roles. Surely Scripture's message to women is as relevant to the Afghani mother seeking to shield her daughter from physical abuse as it is to a homeschooling mom in the midwest. Yet, much content of typical women's books or retreats are so bound by our conservative western culture as to be completely meaningless to the much larger, global body of Christ, which also needs solid teaching to women. I experienced this when attempting to edit one of my books to be relevant to Filipino pastor's wives. I was moved to think in new ways of how the principles so precious to me in my comfortable home in Seattle would transcend to women in starkly different cultural situations.
I have two criticisms of Half the Church
My other criticism is that while she paints a clear picture of the need, James doesn't present solutions. Now, I haven't finished reading everything, and I'll certainly correct this criticism if I've missed something at the end. But I long to hear of her example in addressing this in practical ways. I found Tim Keller's Generous Justice
Again, if you'd like me to send you a free copy of Half the Church
I'd be interested in reading this.... I feel like I need to better articulate what women should be doing in the church and the world than simply focusing on what they (I) *shouldn't* be doing.
ReplyDeleteI enjoy reading your blog.
Sounds like an interesting book. I was just chatting about the role of women within church last week with a friend.
ReplyDeleteSounds like a book for me! :) Re-thinking women's issues based on globality is fascinating and so deep.
ReplyDeleteI'm very interested in reading this, especially as a woman who struggles to fit into my church and even build friendships with the other women my age ... I'm 30, my husband and I are childless due to infertility issues, and I'm the only woman in my age group ay church who isn't a stay-at-home mom. I can't help but feel that the picture we've painted of the ideal Christian woman is too limited in it's scope, and honestly I've never even considered how poorly some of those ideas would translate into other cultures. I'm interested in thinking and studying some of these ideas further, especially since it sounds like they relate to the season God's currently leading me through.
ReplyDeleteI'd be interested in reading this also. Living overseas, we have very little access to what new books are coming out. I might check this book out when we are in the states this summer and see how it fits with living in China.
ReplyDeleteI would love to read this book as my family has just changed churches that are operating in completely opposite ways when it comes to women. Have been reading scripture and articles on this topic and this book may help.
ReplyDeleteI would love to have a copy! I've read several reviews of the book, each with a different take. Rethinking women's issues in the global church is something I'm thinking through these days, and would love to hear some of her positions.
ReplyDeleteI would be delighted to read this book! I've been processing through my own views on women in the church for the past couple of years and enjoy hearing/reading those of others.
ReplyDeleteI would love to get a hold of this book! Sounds really interesting & would be helpful!
ReplyDeleteI would love to read this book. Would love to hear about more about what the woman should be doing in the church! Thank you for this opportunity.
ReplyDeleteApparently your blog gets read a lot in the East! I'm also in China and would be interested in reading this book. Is it also for singles? Someone here printed your Mother's Day post and gave it out at fellowship that day, and it really touched me. I'm in the fourth paragraph, though at 31 there's still plenty of time for the Father to move me to another category! If it's just aimed at married women I'd donate it to our library here for others to benefit from (and probably read it myself anyway!)
ReplyDeleteI am interested too! I have read one of Carolyn's books and thoroughly enjoyed it. I am a stay at home mom of 4, my husband just took a pastoral role in a church plant after being in college ministry for quite some time, and I am looking for helps to better understand my role in this mission. Thanks for the opportunity!
ReplyDeleteThanks to you and C.C. James for this opportunity! I read When Life and Beliefs Collide and was challenged to think and study through the ideas presented. It made me fidget and really wrestle with my own thoughts and beliefs as well as the way she was presenting some things. I'd enjoy the opportunity to do it again with this book.
ReplyDeleteI'm interested too! I'm in Japan and would love to be challenged to understand biblical womanhood in light of an Eastern context.
ReplyDeleteTHANK YOU for your blog. I just was pointed here by my husband via Desiring God.org, and I can tell I'm going to be reading this as often as I can!
This sounds like a good book to bring a broader scope to my reading group. I'd like to check it out. Thanks for the review!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the good review. As the comments above show, not all women fit into that cookie cutter role that so many authors think we should. I tried for years to get the other women at our last church to understand that we don't need to learn some other woman's idea of what it is to be a good wife or mom, but we need to learn how to live christ centered lives that will make us more like christ then all the other parts of out lives will be chaned into his image too. Then the cuircumstances of your life individually do not matter and we can all learn together and without being made to feel less of a person. Thanks for your insight and great teaching. I really enjoy your perspective and biblically based teaching. Peace.
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed her book "When Life and Beliefs Collide"; it made me reevaluate (in a good way) so much of how I live. I will certainly be looking this one up!
ReplyDeleteTHANK YOU for your blog!
ReplyDeleteI read it regurarly since i've discovered it few montha ago. Excellent!
Would like to read that book too!
Aiona from Romania
Yes, please! Your review was tremendously helpful, both in praise and critique. I am SO thankful these topics are being discussed more openly and more effectively these days!
ReplyDeleteI'd definitely like to read this book!
ReplyDeleteI'd be interested in reading it! I love CCJ.
ReplyDeleteCount me in the draw. Sounds like an interesting read. Issues I think and grapple with myself.
ReplyDeleteIt would be my first read by her as well.
Love your blog too!
I totally agree with Peggy's comments and could not word it any better. So many women feel marginalized, less of a person, with no place for them at the table,because of the very narrow role focus (of being a wife/mother) that seems to directly or indirectly stem from much Complementarian teaching. Our identity should be in Christ, not our role. And in the world today, for many varied reasons, so many don't fit this traditional role and they feel rejected by "the church." How sad,when the marginalized of Jesus' day flocked to Him!
ReplyDeleteI've become an odd hybrid theologically as a result. I'm really Neo-reformed and very conservative theologically, yet I feel rejected by this camp. I feel at home among the Progressive Christians who seem better at building bridges with the marginalized, and don't confine people to such narrow roles.
would love a challenging read on women's issues.
ReplyDeleteI'd love to read this book. Strangely, I've read a
ReplyDeletebunch on vision for men in the church and would love to catch a vision that applies a but more personally. Thanks for the opportunity!
Jess
As an infertile woman in my thirties I've been feeling very 'left out of the club'. My daily thought is something along the lines of "what the heck am I supposed to do with my life now?!" Sounds like a book I should read.
ReplyDeleteThanks for all your comments. Bethany gets the free copy. Bethany, please email me at theologyforwomen@gmail.com with your address.
ReplyDeleteRats! I go 2 days w/o reading your blog, and look what happens to me! :)
ReplyDeletePick me! I'd love a copy of the book!
ReplyDeleteWhat is a complementarian conspiracy theorist? That's a new term for me.
ReplyDeleteAlso, I'd be interested in a copy of the book.
Thanks, Laurie
Ps...your post says you live in Seattle (same time zone as me) and says you'll draw on Tuesday (today). But then it appears Bethany won a copy in a drawing on Monday night. I'm not complaining, I'm just asking since I'm new to following this blog. Just curious :)
ReplyDeleteYeah, it was still late Monday Seattle time. But Bethany hasn't responded so you may win yet!
ReplyDeleteHi! I just found your blog few days ago. I enjoy reading and I am very interested in the book. I hope I am not too late for the drawing!
ReplyDeleteBeth W. is the new winner of the book. Beth, send me your mailing address to theologyforwomen@gmail.com, and I'll send it out to you this week.
ReplyDeleteMe again, still wondering What is a complementarian conspiracy theorist? That's a new term for me. I googled it but didn't come up with a clear explanation. Thanks for your time.
ReplyDeleteI made up the term. There are complementarians that seem suspicious of any push back against their ideas. I've read a number of them criticizing Carolyn Custis James in particular. In contrast, I think that correct Bible teaching will stand up under scrutiny, and I think push back on any idea helps to purify views rather than undermine them.
ReplyDeleteI would love a copy, I am always looking for a good read to add to my ever growing list! Thanks!
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